But generally speaking, yes, men are just as capable of becoming attached sexually as women are. Ingrained stereotypes would make you believe that men are less emotional than women and, therefore, more cavalier about casual sex. And while some studies suggest that women are more likely to feel more bonded after being intimate, the truth is that men are just as capable of falling head over heels for a woman after intimacy if the right hormones are triggered.
Everyone wants to be loved and appreciated for who they are, not how they can enhance someone else materially. If you want to give that gift of emotional safety, shower your man with unconditional acceptance. Trust is also important. Moreover, say what you mean β and mean what you say. It goes a long way.
Men are easily turned way off by clinginess. If the goal is to create a strong relationship that goes somewhere, keep it light and playful for a while. Let the partnership and friendship build slowly. It might sound old-fashioned, but making a guy chase you works. Being overly eager can read as desperate. So give him space.
Let him miss you. Does sex create feelings? In a word: Yes! But how can you tell when a guy feels closer to you after being intimate? Everybody is different, but there are a few clues. Again, every person is unique and shaped by their own quirks, habits, experiences, and personality.
However, it provides a general guide to male post-coital expressive behavior. If, after sex, he stays in bed and wants to cuddle, consider it a great sign. Men who are only after the physical part get up and leave.
