By continuing to use our site, you agree to our Private Policy and Terms of Use. There is always an element of fear when meeting a stranger. That's your smart sense kicking in, your brain going into self-protective mode even as you adjust your cock ring.
A million things could happen. He may look nothing like his pictures. He may be deranged. He may suspect you're the guy his ex cheated on him with, even if you're not, and be planning his revenge.
He may be newly single and burst into tears the minute you comment on his jockstrap "Jonathan gave me this jockstrap, now he won't even speak to me! Browse these 25 scary hookups that happen to all of us, and remember to always have an escape route. Enter if you dare!
My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly. I am a sex-positive writer and blogger. The views in this slideshow do not reflect those of The Advocate and are based solely off of my own experiences. Like everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. Those who are sensitive to frank discussions about sex are invited to click elsewhere, but consider this: If you are outraged by content that address sex openly and honestly, I invite you to examine this outrage and ask yourself whether it should instead be directed at those who oppress us by policing our sexuality.
For all others, enjoy the slideshow. And feel free to leave your own suggestions of sex and dating topics in the comments. Hungry for more? Not everyone loves anonymous sex, but I do. Anonymous sex is one of the most thrilling parts of my gay life. It works because it's accident; it's chance. As with Christmas and birthday parties, planning anything takes away the fun of it and makes it routine: discussion, buildup, and the inevitable letdown of having things go as you foresaw.
