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And if you are the Samantha Jones from Sex and the City kinds, you know the thrill that casual sex can bring in your life. The idea of getting all nice and naughty between the sheets with a complete stranger is equal parts exciting and intimidating. We all have a type and for that we all also have a checklist. Basically, a list of things that we like in a person that make them attractive enough for us.
The whole point of a one-night stand is to have a good time, so why regress from the key point. If you have second thoughts, go for a coffee instead. If the person ticks the majority of points in your checklist, go for it. This will make it a win-win for both of you. Casual hookups are meant to be kept NSA so no one really is judging you here. You may not even see them after this sweet sexual encounter, so use it to experiment with your kinks. Dim the lights, shed the inhibitions with the clothes, communicate and bring your fantasies alive.
Be grateful for the experience. Thank them for hosting you and making your night memorable. And if there is no hint of awkwardness, bring in the lube to enhance the pleasure.
They are not interested in knowing how and why you broke up with your ex or how many people you have already slept with in the vicinity. Talking about your amazing sex life with others is a big no-no and so is getting too emo. Wash yourself up, thank them and leave with a promise to see them around sometime later. Remember, it was a one-night stand. Nothing more, nothing less. Just get on with your life, mate. And we hope our guide on how to navigate a one-night stand successfully helps you separate your emotions from your physical needs.
