I am interested in potentially becoming a dominatrix and would like to learn more about it. Would you be able to provide me with some information on somewhere I could goโlike a local dungeon here in Milwaukeeโto get more information? I talked to two professional dominatrices who are based in other cities, but occasionally work in Milwaukee, to ask what their advice might be.
Their suggestions for you are below. In my opinion, you should have a true desire to engage in BDSM on a personal level before you do it as a pro. Although it looks very glamorous, it takes skills and a sizable investment in equipment and training to become a professional. I trained for over a year in one of the top dungeons in New York under experienced Mistresses who put me through the paces. I suggest joining local munches and finding a lifestyle Mistress who will mentor a newbie in proper protocol.
From there, once you are comfortable, move on to play parties and possibly a personal slave or two. If possible, attend national fetish conventions where there are classes and experienced Dommes who share their knowledge. Join fetish community sites like fetlife. The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is a great resource as well. Stay on top of the news of the day Subscribe to our free, daily e-newsletter to get Milwaukee's latest local news, restaurants, music, arts and entertainment and events delivered right to your inbox every weekday, plus a bonus Week in Review email on Saturdays.
Pro dom work is very much considered prostitution by law enforcement. Like any job, becoming a professional dominatrix requires passion and aptitude for the work, training and skill acquisition, networking and dedication. It can often seem difficult for new folks to begin, so I hope the advice provided above gives you some good starting points and things to consider.
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