Written by Karolina Wilde. Fact checked by Dr. Eleonora Benhar PhD. At Natural Cycles, our mission is to empower you with the knowledge you need to take charge of your health.
At Cycle Matters, we create fact-checked, expert-written content that tackles these topics in a compassionate and accessible way. Read more If you have ever fantasized about having any type of non-consensual sex, you are definitely not alone — it's a very popular sexual fantasy people have. Yet, despite its popularity, CNC kinks are shrouded in myths, misconceptions, and shame. In our article, we'll discuss everything there is to know about consensual non-consent, which will hopefully help you get to know more about this topic.
However, anyone can withdraw consent at any time. Yes, absolutely! CNC kinks just like any other kink are normal. It's a healthy part of our sexuality and nothing to be ashamed or worried about in most cases. If you find your sex life is stopping you from enjoying your everyday life, then it might be a good idea to talk to a medical professional. They may be able to offer advice or treatment like talking therapy. When most people hear the term 'CNC,' they think of being forced to have sexual intercourse against their will.
However, consensual non-consent can be so much more than that. CNC kinks can be seen as controversial for a number of reasons. The very idea of enacting forced sex or power play can be triggering for those who are survivors of sexual assault, rape. While CNC is by its very nature about pushing and exploring boundaries and may verge into uncomfortable places, it's essential your sexual play always remains safe and legal. What sort of acts someone chooses to engage in when they explore a CNC kink can look very different from person to person.
For some, CNC kink exploration might involve non-sexual activities like being forced to eat foods they dislike against their will. The beauty of any kink is that we have the power to personalize it to fit our needs, wants, and desires. If you ever feel like you're the only person to have forced sex fantasies, know that you're far from alone — these fantasies are more common than you think. Social psychologist and researcher Dr. Justin Lehmiller surveyed over 4, Americans on their sexual fantasy habits.
