My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly five years. When we first got together, he shared a fetish with me, which has honestly gotten out of hand. But not just your garden variety one.
The first two years of our relationship were terrifying because if I peed while he was at work, he would throw a fit of epic proportions.
So, I would hold it in. This caused UTIs and other problems. I also have to let him watch me poop, which is embarrassing as hell, because I pee when I poop.
If I need to pee in the middle of the night, I have to wake him upβwhich makes him madβso instead of waking him up I hold it in all night. It has gotten to the point where his obsession has become mine. Even thenβin the hospitalβhe had to watch me pee. I feel like my humanity is being leached away. This has taken over my entire life.
Help me! Ian Fields is a urogynecologist who specializes in pelvic floor disorders and bladder conditions. Leave him. Fields continued. These infections can track upwards to the kidneys in some cases and cause an infection in the kidney called pyelonephritis. Recurrent bouts of pyelonephritis can lead to permanent kidney damage. In addition, these insults could lead to overactive bladder and with time, to urgency urinary incontinence, that is, leakage that you cannot control when you get the urge to go to the bathroom.
