As an independent publication, we rely on contributions from readers like you to fund our journalism. About a year ago, I joined a pack with one Sir and several puppies. Fast-forward nine months, and the pack has fallen apart due to each of us going through our own relationship troubles.
Having such a close bond with Fido, and already being sexual, I bring up the idea of dating. But now it seems like Fido is using this Dom the same way he used his past relationshipsβas a way to avoid dealing with his own stuff. Am I deluding myself here? Happily married straight woman here, just post-hysterectomy. No penis-in-vagina sex allowed for a few weeks. After years of reading Savage Love, we know this is a call for us to be creative, rather than the death knell for our sex life. Thank you!
My question: Husband is well-endowed, and sex with him has often included deep thrusting and his cock repeatedly touching my cervix. With no cervix anymore, though, I worry: Will there be enough room in my remodeled space for his whole cock? Leah Torres, an ob-gyn practicing in Utah with a special interest in reproductive health. That said, people who are menopausal no periods for 12 months or more or who have had their ovaries removed which may or may not happen during a hysterectomy no longer have estrogen.
Estrogen, among other wonderful things, keeps vaginas elastic and lubricated. Patience and a steady-as-she-goes attitude to postoperative vaginal intercourse are best. Patience and a steady-as-she-goes attitudeβtwo things we should all bring to any sexual encounter. Follow Dr. Torres on Twitter LeahNTorres. Her website is LeahTorres. So I asked four of my adventurous female friends if they would come to a small party at my apartment where my boyfriend would be naked.
He was so angry, he barely spoke to me for a week, which sucked, and then today he asked me when the party is going to happen! Have a party?!? All I want to do now is slap him! Rather, sex for me is an improvisational dance, and mutual oral sex is a normal and lovely part of the choreography. Domination does not represent the only route to her gratification. Mea culpa.
