Dear Annie: My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 12 years now. We have a lot of history. We were best friends for a year in high school and we had a few incidents when we kissed back in the day. I left home for the Air Force in We kept in contact here and there. We both have been married.
I moved back home in , and we became romantically involved and moved in together six months later. It was good for a while, and then we started growing apart because she is insecure and I am not emotional at all. She is an introvert, and I am an extrovert. Now she gets an attitude if I go to lunch with that friend. I told her before that I need friends and a social life.
We have been clashing for years but stay together. I just want to be myself! Thank you for listening and hope to hear back from you. Dear Pondering: You have quite the laundry list of grievances, but your first step should be treating your depression. Depression can make a lot of other, more trivial problems seem insurmountable. None of your other marriage problems sound like dealbreakers. If you treat your depression and communicate honestly and respectfully, preferably with the help of a marriage counselor, you can get your relationship back on track.
Your answer was good but incomplete. She should visit HHS. They will investigate and could possibly press charges. They take these things seriously. Dear Know Your Rights: Thank you for this helpful information. I agree, legal action may be required to remedy this one. Send your questions for Annie Lane to dearannie creators. If you purchase a product or register for an account through a link on our site, we may receive compensation.
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