Here's how to know it's time to take the next step. The dating game can be tough, so when you meet someone and you simply click, it's no surprise that you'd want to commit to a lifetime together. Unfortunately, a relationship going well isn't the one and only indicator that you're ready for marriageβand it's not right to simply say, "I want to get married" and proceed to force your partner and your relationship into boxes they simply don't fit into or aren't ready for.
So, how can you know if you really are ready? Meet the Expert. The ability to trust one another is the foundation of any successful relationship.
Without it, you may have love, but your marriage will be fraught with tension. Is there trust there? Our lives rarely follow one straight road βthey wind and twist and turn. And, more importantly, have you had the talk with your partner? Being open and honest about this from the beginning can avoid a lot of frustration down the road. You can't just assume your goals align because you discussed something in passing years agoβconstant communication about major life decisions, from how many children you want if any to where you ultimately want to live, should be frequent and ongoing.
If you are trying your best to be someone else, I would encourage you to imagine what that would feel like for years to come. The influence on your self-esteem and anxiety this could produce. Chances are, you will face some stumbling blocks in life, so it's important to consider whether or not you and your partner are prepared to battle them hand-in-hand. The wedding is a celebration, however, your marriage needs to be strong enough to last a lifetime.
Introducing a new partner to your family is a huge step. It often takes time to get there. Be patient, they are building trust too! Humor in a relationship is so important, says Dr. Like and love are not the same. Do you enjoy their company? Saying "I do" is not cheap. Where do you see things heading, honestly? Notice how you act and feel when you are around your partner. Is it a version of yourself that you like? Are you playing a one-sided game of table tennis?
