Okay, so you want to try hook-ups and meet new guys to have casual sex with? Friends with benefits FWB : Casual hook-up buddies or fuck buddies. No strings-attached, but you also hang out regularly. Cruising : The act of seeking out potential sexual partners, often in public places like parks, restrooms, or cruising clubs. A common way to meet guys is online.
Different spaces are designed or used for different types of meet-ups or hook-ups. It requires a conversation - but this conversation doesn't have to be super clinical, you can be sexy with it. Asking for consent does not kill the mood; in fact, being asked what you want and asking what others want is hot.
There are public spaces in almost every part of the country where men cruise for gay sex, some of these have visitors every night, and others may be very infrequent and mostly areas used for pre-organised hookups.
These could be public parks, public toilets, or toilet cubicles in public buildings, like universities. Squirt or Sniffies, are websites that you can search for cruising spots near you, it also has message boards for each site, where people post if they are heading down.
If you can, tell someone where you are going, keep your phone charged so you can call for help if needed, and ensure you are sober. You can get free condoms from most gar bars and parties we know, because we put them there on the bars. Life with HIV. Workforce Development. Support and Partnerships. About us. Our Story. Our Kaupapa. Donate now. Think you've been exposed? HIV in Aotearoa. Frequently Asked Questions.
