But what is actually behind this relationship model? Often, younger partners are also promised assistance with their careers. The younger person in the arrangement receives these material benefits in return for their companionship, time, and often intimacy.
A controversial issue regarding sugar dating is whether it is a modern form of prostitution. Proponents argue that sugar dating is a type of consensual relationship in which both parties voluntarily enter into consensual agreements. They see it as a way for people to fulfill their needs without any of the usual restrictions of traditional relationships. In addition, it is advertised that sugar dating — especially for young women — should enable a life beyond any worries and hardships.
Anita herself is convinced that her arrangement is not prostitution, as she receives the money for specific purposes such as travel expenses. In contrast, prostitution is purely about the exchange of money for sexual services. Additionally, being able to set her own rules makes her feel more independent compared to a prostitute. The expert however cannot agree with this. The latter emphasizes that even in prostitution many men seek conversations and invite the prostitutes to social undertakings.
He sees sugaring as a form of civil prostitution, since on the surface it resembles a conventional relationship, but ultimately it still revolves around the exchange of money for sexual relations. Once the financial aspect is no longer there or the sexual interest wanes, the parties part ways. From his point of view, everything else is just a deception or illusion. The younger person could potentially be pressured to perform sexual acts in order to enjoy the financial benefits.
In addition, research by the investigative format Vollbild of SWR shows that many older men use the sugar dating platforms to specifically establish sexual contacts with minors. Even though you have to give your date of birth in order to register on the dating sites, this is not verified.
