Last Updated: November 7, Fact Checked. This article was co-authored by Eddy Baller. Coaching since , Eddy specializes in confidence building, advanced social skills, and relationships.
Conquer and Win helps men worldwide have the love lives they deserve. There are 13 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 35,, times. So you finally got "the look" and you're moving in for that killer kiss when it dawns on you that you need help—and fast. If you're game to learn everything you need to know about who, what, when, where, why and how to kiss, you've come to the right place.
Whether you're getting ready for your first kiss or looking to improve your makeout technique, we've got you covered with pro kissing tips. Pucker up and let's have some fun!
What kind of hints work? Moshe Ratson, couples counselor, tells us: "To show someone you're interested in kissing, try lowering your voice and leaning in slightly while you speak. You can even whisper into their ear. Get physically closer than normal.
Also consider mirroring your partner's body language. If you want to kiss someone, get the go-ahead first by flirting with them and seeing if they flirt back, or asking directly if you can kiss them. Then, lean in closer to them and tilt your head a little to avoid bumping noses. Close your eyes, open your mouth slightly, and let your lips connect naturally. Don't press too hard with your lips at first. If your first kiss goes well, put your partner's lower lip between your lips so your lips fit together.
