Basically I want to get to the next level in my career where I can work for myself for the rest of my life. Avoid at all costs. I think for guys physical attraction in a hook-up is The Most Important Thing.
My standards here are kind of whatever. What I look for is someone who seems relaxing and fun to be around. Talk to women on dating sites like you are talking to a girl who is already your friend. Ask about common interests. If a girl wants sex she will ask you to hang out at your home or hers vs. The whole thing can take less than 5 minutes.
Do whatever you need to do to seem like a person YOU would want to drink a glass of wine with and fool around for a few hours. Remember that for women this means being personable, not bragging about your dick size or sex skills. The best thing a guy can do is just level with me and email me from his real email. Be the normal, fun guy you are with your friends. Talk to me like you would talk to a girl in your friend group.
Try to have a fun conversation and then bring up sex or better yet, let me bring it up. Answer This Honestly. I am currently:. Click what applies and take what you need. Our books are designed as beloved art pieces. We publish work we love. More Thought Catalog. Skip to content. Be Be as tall or taller than me.
Seeming trashy. Yes, this is probably a classist thing to say but I am trying to get wet for a guy not win a humanitarian award. Never say anything negative anywhere in your profile or messages. Victims are not sexy. Or, if your goal is to only hook up with girls who are extremely and only interested in that act. Then by all means. You have to turn my brain on, not my eyes. Plus they kind of all look the same. Letting go and healing my heart.
