When I first heard about SeekingArrangement. Plus, who were these people that she was meeting? Were they nice guys? Were they even who they said they were? The gifts obviously seemed nice, but when I heard that she was making money on top of that, that's what really persuaded me.
Because I didn't care about the material things I could have β I just wanted to provide for my son. We obviously weren't expecting it, and losing a second income, especially in Los Angeles β one of the most expensive cities to live in β made it very difficult for me to provide for Carter. I could afford the basics on my salary working as a customer service representative, but I was never really able to give him the things I thought he should have β a nicer backpack for school, a fun day at the amusement park, or the latest video game that all his friends were playing.
I would do anything for my son, and I want him to be happy. That doesn't mean he needs material things to be happy, of course. But there's a lot of pressure, especially on social media, to have a picture-perfect life.
And at the end of the day, I just couldn't provide in the way that I wanted to. So with my friend's encouragement, I decided to give this sugar baby business a try.
Most people assume that everyone who's a sugar baby has sex with their clients, but that's not true. You can set whatever ground rules you'd like, decide who you see, and how often you want to "work" with them. When I signed up, I went in knowing that I wasn't going to have sex with anyone. That's just not me, and it isn't something I'm comfortable with. I was here to provide for my child, yes, but I wasn't at the point that I felt the need to sell my body to do so.
