What does it mean when someone pulls away after saying they want to be exclusive, or after texting constantly and telling you they want to see you all the time? In this brand-new video, I give you three reasons why someone might do this, what you should do when it happens, and the strange reason why they may choose to ghost but leave the door open. Move on Strong in Your Love Life. What happened here? The best case scenario is that this was a person who got carried away with his feelings. Sometimes we get carried away.
In any case, it would be irresponsible to say that right now. Some people lack that restraint, so they just say those things. It can feel really good when someone really wants you and when someone is giving you this unbelievable amount of energy and attention and is zoned in on you. It can be very easy to get swept up in it. Why did I say all of those things? That is one possible explanation. We could kind of, I suppose, just define that simply as impulsive. I am just going to dazzle you and make you fall in love with me over the course of this weekend and say whatever I need to say to get the absolute zhuzh of your attention.
The love bomber is like that. My feelings are all that matter, and I want to feel really, really intense and have the best weekend ever. Someone who can so easily come in, do this damage to us, and then leave and carry on with their life as if nothing happened, but we will be experiencing it today and tomorrow and the next day.
A complete Jekyll and Hyde scenario, two personalities, one where last weekend you wanted to be with me and be together and be in a relationship, and then the next week where I barely hear from you. I believe there are three primary reasons why people do this. Number one, they want to avoid a difficult conversation. I went too fast. I apologize for letting my emotions get the better of me over the weekend.
The second reason is it makes him look bad. No one wants to do that, especially, by the way, people who have that narcissistic streak. The third reason people do it is because they want to keep the door open. Last weekend I made you feel like this love was something special, that we were going somewhere, that we had something, and then I disappeared with no explanation.
